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Family Matters 05/11/17

10 Ways to Honor Mom This Mother's Day

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This year, I will celebrate Mother's Day with my children, but not my mom. She passed away before Christmas in 2010. It will be sad not to talk to her, send her flowers, and recall fond memories. I am so glad I told my mom that I loved her on a regular basis because now I can't say those words.

For those of you who still have your moms, this is a time to honor her and make it a special day. Honoring Mom will be easy for many of you, and more difficult for others. Some of you will read through Mother's Day cards and feel tremendous loss and sadness because of the difficult relationship you have with your mom. Words may be hard to find. Instead of focusing on the times our moms let us down or didn't give us exactly what we thought we needed, look for ways to strengthen this important and powerful relationship.

Think of a way you can give a message to Mom that honors her, even if the relationship is strained or difficult. Find a way to do what God commands – honor our moms. And remember, this commandment comes with a promise.

Here are 10 ways to provide your mom with a message of honor:

  1. Tell her one thing she did right. Write it in a card or on a note or simply tell her.
  2. Recall happy times and loving memories. Again, think through the positive times of your relationship and be ready to talk about those times.
  3. Resolve past hurts and start fresh. You go first! Apologize. Offer forgiveness and do what it takes to put the hurts behind you and move forward. Maybe this is the Mother's Day gift needed this year.
  4. Write a short story about you and mom and share it. Yes, this would take some effort, but what a great memory maker this would be for both of you.
  5. Send/give a card. Express thanks. Make the card personal by adding words of fondness, admiration, or what she means to you. In order words, send a message to mom, one of thanks and what she means to you. And the good news is you can buy a blank card and personal the message to your situation.
  6. Put together pictures of you and your mom in a scrapbook or give her a photo that brings to memory a happy moment. You can post it on social media or print it out and put it in a frame.
  7. Buy dinner or bring her special treats. Moms love to be the target of pampering as they are usually the ones giving to others. Mother's Day is her turn to be the recipient of good things.
  8. Tell her you love her and appreciate all the sacrifices she has made through the years. The words, "I love you", are powerful and need to be said often.
  9. Extend grace. If you have a difficult mom, extend grace this holiday and pray for a moment of happiness. If you are estranged, extend the olive branch and let her know you want to try to have some type of relationship.
  10. In the most difficult relationships, honor her for giving you life. Buy a blank card and simply write, "Thanks for choosing life and bringing me into this world."

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